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Urban chaos nurtures the most surprising relationships. These Punekars let us into theirs
On one hand we complain that modern life does not value human relationships; but on the other, people form deep bonds across the barriers of age, gender and religion. The people of Pune speak of such relationships forged by love, mutual interests and mental wavelength. Three Punekars tell us about their special bonds.
“There are things I can share only with her and not even with my mother.”
Garima Singh and Chitralekha Das
23-year-old Garima Singh was in the seventh standard when she first met Chitralekha Das. Her army family moved to Pune in 2003 and shifted to the Controllerate of Quality Assurance (Special Vehicles) [CQA (SV)] Colony quarters at Dehu Road. It was there that Garima met Chitralekha Das, who is now 60 years old. “My father was in the army so we were always on the move,” says Garima, an MBA student. “Pune was alien to us, but we found family in Das uncle and aunty. The day I met aunty, I knew this bond was going to last forever.”
Chitralekha, who used to be a dance and music teacher, often required someone to record songs for her; young Garima stepped in. “That’s how our bond started to develop,” says Garima. “Also, I loved going to her place and eat macher jhol bhaat. As a Punjabi, I was tired of eating rajma-chawal and chole-chawal. I grew up on aunty’s fish. Even today, whenever I come to meet aunty, I don’t leave without eating my favourite dish.”
Over the years, their relationship has grown to simulate a mother-daughter one. So much so that Garima chose to pursue her studies in Pune even after her parents moved to Dehradun. “Just knowing that aunty would be nearby reassured my parents of my safety. Even after so many years, our relationship hasn’t changed,” she says.
For Chitralekha, Garima is the daughter she never had. “I have two sons and always missed having a daughter with whom I could have girly talks,” says the boutique owner. “With Garima around, I have no complaints. Whenever I’m stuck while designing saris, Garima helps me out. Whenever she faces a dilemma about what to wear, she comes to me and I love dressing her up.”
Their relationship is fluid. “I don’t call her very often or visit her frequently,” says Garima, “but when we meet, we take off from where we left. There are things I can share only with her and not even with my mother because I know she will not judge me.”
"Gitanjali’s presence lifts me up whenever I am in the dumps"
Gitanjali Rai and Indrajeet Handique
“I met Indrajeet when he was just nine years old,” says Gitanjali Rai, devotional singer and life coach. “He and his friends used to come over to my place during satsangs at Wanawdi. It was mostly to eat the prasadam. Naughty as he was, he would wait for the programme to get over. Then he would tiptoe to where the musical instruments were kept and start plucking at the tanpura or thump the tabla. Seeing his interest in music, I asked his mother to get in touch with a music teacher.”
That was many moons ago, in 2003, when Indrajeet had first landed with his family in the city from Assam. At Gitanjali’s advice, he started studying music. “The day he learnt his first chord,” says Gitanjali, who is in her 40s, “he ran up to my place and asked me to play the same chord on the harmonium.”
That was how they connected. Indrajeet is now 20 years old and Gitanjali has his guide through every stage. “When Indrajeet reached his teens, he became restless and his thoughts and expressions were clouded,” says Gitanjali. “I tried to pin down the cause of his extreme feelings and initiated him into spirituality.”
He would accompany Gitanjali to workshops and was intrigued by these sessions. Gitanjali smiles as she recollects, “Indrajeet has an insatiable appetite for knowledge. He had strong views about the absolute power, religion, and spirituality.” Since she was already into the Art of Living, she could relate to him.
Indrajeet trusts her completely. “Gitanjali’s presence lifts me up whenever I am in the dumps. She was with me through my testing times, nurtured and guided me,” says the BSL III student.
However Gitanjali doesn’t encourage dependence. She wants him to think for himself and take his own decisions.
In Gitanjali, Indrajeet has found a patient listener and a musical partner. “Gitanjali and I both understand each other,” he says. “She has become an integral part of my life. Whenever I face a problem in college, with my friends or at home, I call her up. She guides and helps me understand different issues.
She is also an expert in classical music. When I have trouble composing a song, we put our heads together and work on it.”
While she is travelling, Indrajeet stays in touch through calls and emails. Otherwise they meet up every evening, during prayer time when Gitanjali sings her bhajans and Indrajeet accompanies her on the guitar.
“Our relationship has been a learning experience.”
Kavita Sagar and Niharika Batra
One evening three years ago, while taking a walk in the Raheja Gardens’ soceity garden at Wanawadi, Kavita met Niharika. Niharika was lost in her thoughts. Kavita noticed the wistful look on her face and sat down beside her. The 36-year-old home-maker had seen Niharika and her friends chatting, laughing and discussing life animatedly around the colony.
Niharika was apprehensive as her medical entrance exams were just round the corner. It was important for her to secure good rank and get admission in a reputed Government Medical College.
She wanted to follow in her
father’s footstep, who is a doctor in AFMC (Armed Forces Medical College).
Kavita listened to her woes and stood by her. They kept meeting each other and the bond grew. Three years later, not a day has passed without them updating each other about their lives. When Niharika got through the medical entrance exams, Kavita was the first person she shared the news with.
Niharika is just as important to Kavita. “From the first moment I met her,” says Kavita, “I knew she was important, special, different and very very rare. Though only 20 years old, she is very mature. She has stood by me in moments of despair. She has touched my life. Our relationship has been a learning experience.” Kavita is an anchor who has helped her evolve. They usually call each other a couple of times a day and go out shopping or for dinner on weekends.
“I am a shopaholic,” Niharika discloses. “Kavita has a good fashion sense and her opinion matters to me. I remember the time she helped me choose the right accessories for my yellow and blue kurta.” When Niharika visits, Kavita doesn’t forget to get her favourite ice-cream, paani-puri and bhel.
“In the last couple of years, we have found something few people experience,” says Kavita.
Inputs by Ishani Bose
An abode of peace and tranquility
Barnalee Handique takes us on a tour of Vibha Bokey and her son Abhisekh’s home
TGS News Service
Away from the humdrum of city life, in a sleepy hamlet of Mandavi is Vibha Bokey and her son Abhisekh’s home. Surrounded by a meticulously landscaped garden, with tall fruit trees swaying amongst a profusion of greenery, dotted with cast iron and wooden furniture, the red tiled house of the Bokey’s definitely makes an assertive presence off the city’s rolling hillscape. With the imposing Khadakwasla Dam in the north-east corner, the sprawling 7 acre farm land well extended structural peripheral is as imposing as the scrupulously done up interiors, revealing the innate passion of the owners for beautiful spaces.
The approach is marked by an outsize garden, along the drive way speckled with mango, chickoo, guavas and jasmine trees, with a cobbled path meandering to the homestead. Nestling in the greens, the bungalow juxtaposed against the cool blue skies give an instant effect of a postcard beauty.
A half century old buggy stands at the porch which Vibha, an antique collector bought some time back. Moving within, one is introduced to the magnificence and sheer enormity of the curio collection flaunted from every nook and corner of the huge home.
The porch leads to an L-shape living room which is divided into three sections. The extreme corner of the room morphs into a splendid dining area. The exquisite kota pillar in the middle of the room with niches, antiquities deceptively strewn over all over the area, compliment the hand woven cream and blue curtains. Further, a gleaming piano against a fireplace, stirs a strong nostalgia of British colonialism.
Vibha, the indefatigable collector is especially enamoured by antique colonial teak furniture which she has lovingly assembled over the years from all over the world. Reveals Vibha, “The collection of knick knacks displayed around had been bought from the flea market. Some other odd pieces have been retrieved from old Parsi homes.” The massive dining table and its adjoining area have some French inputs. The tall French lantern and the French chandelier which reflects the streaming sunlight adds a regal exquisiteness to the room. Displayed on the wall are a couple of paintings done by the lady of the house and Milind Mullick. Even the light fixtures compliment the old world look. An interesting cornucopia of intricately carved furniture and artecrafts from all over the country and abroad fill every nook and corner of the house. Some are antiques, while others are reproductions, but all speak a common ethnic language — the brass statutes, gleaming copper pots, brass urns, delicately carved woodwork have all been procured from South India. Vibha says, “I have been scrounging the back lanes of popular markets in the city and rummaging the family attics for unearthing all these treasures.
The ceiling stands at an imposing height of 28 feet with massive teak beams crisscrossing it. Two stained glass skylights stand adorn the hall, which Vibha had designed herself. Vibha is the architect and designer of her lovely home. Not only the skylight, but each skylight has a tale to tell. As do the sea men’s chest and two Turkish carpets in soft hues, the squat chairs and low tables. Another interesting feature is the wooden turret stairs, which leads from the dining room to the mezzanine floor which has been converted into a loft.
The master bedroom is dominated by the royal French 4 poster bed and capacious wardrobes. Polished, aged, colonial furniture has been utilised for storage purpose too. The heavy veneer closets and the chest of drawers in rosewood add to the décor, with the old family photographs perfectly complimenting the old style setting. A deft use of everyday objects has been fashioned in such a way that it brings out the beauty of ordinary things. Innovation makes its mark even in the way the family pictures are displayed.
If the house is charming, the garden is enchanting. Weaving away from the front porch, the pathway leads to stone idols of Buddha and Nandi (bull). Similarly brass urns, lanterns, sparkling candlebars, humming wind chimes make the bungalow and the garden a nature filled elegant cocoon set against verdant splendor.
City scientist wins prestigious award
Dr Vinaya Ghate has been conferred with the Dr Janaki Ammal International Award by the
International society of Ethno-Botany
By Barnalee Handique
@barnalee
Senior scientist and researcher Dr Vinaya Ghate has been conferred with the Dr Janaki Ammal International Award by the International society of Ethno-Botany. A pioneer in ethno-botanical studies in Maharashtra and the former head of Botany Department of Agharkar Research Institute (ARI), Dr Ghate has been associated with this field for 35 years. She has specialised in taxonomy, ethno-botany and bio-diversity conservation and has also worked in distribution, diversity and germ plasm studies in endemic and medicinal plants. A recipient of the Dr Ekbote Prize and Dr VD Vartak Vanamitra award among others, Dr. Ghate has many firsts to her credit and her research work has been lauded nationally and internationally. She has written over 70 research papers and authored a number of books in Marathi regarding popularisation of science. Among the research conducted by Ghate, the classification of flora into its genetic and chemical compositions, found in rural Maharashtra has been recognised.
“My botany teachers in high school and college always encouraged and inspired me to take up this particular subject seriously. That’s how my interest for Botany developed. After completing my graduation from SP College, I got an opportunity to assist Dr. VD Vartak in various projects at the Agharkar Research Institute as a lab assistant in 1975,” she said. It was under Dr Vartak that Dr. Ghate began to explore the subject and began visiting places. Later, in 1980, the Ethno-Botany Society of India was founded, that carried out dedicated studies in understanding the relation between tribals and the surrounding flora in rural areas. While she was working there, she completed her MSC in Botany from Pune University. Over the years, she became totally immersed in her projects and Dr Ghate decided to pursue her post-doctoral degree in floristic. Her doctoral thesis was based on, ‘The flora of north-western ghats in relation to social forestry’.
After retiring from Agharkar Research Institute in 2011, Dr Ghate joined Nisargsevak, an NGO that works for the conservation of nature. She and her team have been trying to protect the sacred groves in the state from destruction. “Our efforts at Nisargasevak are to create awareness among general public regarding the conservation of forests. We are also focusing on the Western Ghats and hold open workshops for students, teachers of Botany and others,” she said.
Yo, Let’s go and visit yogoyo.com
For avid travel blogger Prakash Bang, writing about his travelogues has become the second favourite
pastime for him, says Barnalee Handique
I am passionate about travelling and exploring new places. Travel is important to me because it allows my family and myself to broaden our horizons – to experience different cultures, enjoy a variety of experiences and have a lot of fun in the process,” explains city businessman Prakash R Bang.Bang is the managing director of WebSource Technologies Limited which designs, develops, and deploys Internet and e-commerce solutions for the travel and tourism industry. An avid traveller since 1984, Bang launched his travel blog yogoyo.com in 2009. The title fashioned out of American slang (Yo! Let’s Go!), struck him after a conversation with his young sons Ruchir and Anuj. He is happy that around 700 people visit his site daily.Bang shares his experiences, stories and tips with fellow travellers. The Limca Book of Records awarded him with a national record certificate of having started a first-person blog/travelogue running for the longest duration. “As of June 30, 2013, he had covered 254 destinations within 34 countries, from Antartica to Slovakia. His blog on www.YoGoYo.com had 2,25,672 words and 7,932 images of the places he has visited,” the certificate states.
The Bang’s first trip was to Thailand, Singapore, Philippines and Hong Kong in 1984. Thereafter, he has been travelling every year. There was so much to explore, see and experience in these destinations. Every place offered him something new. For instance, Hong Kong is a place for foodies, with a rich variety of street and gourmet cuisine.The ‘Symphony of Lights’ in Hong Kong was another lifetime experience for him. Every evening, at the stroke of 8, lights, music and commentary take over. Around 40 buildings are brightly lit up and some have lasers beaming out making various patterns and throwing light on the boats passing the bay. The show goes on for about 13 minutes. What he loved most about Bali was the rich colours of the sea, forests, black volcanic ash, red fertile soil, fiery Balinese cuisine and the warm hearted people. In Thailand, what left an indelible mark on his mind was Kanchabari, just 130km from Bangkok, a land of waterfalls and home to majestic tigers. Not to forget the bridge on the river Kwae
Yai, that later became the theme of an English movie. There are seven waterfalls in the area and tigers abound in the reserve. These tigers are chained and visitors can click pictures of them from a distance. As Bang loves capturing every moment in camera, he decided to write about his travels and share it with other travellers.
Asked whether he is a backpacker, Bang said, “Earlier I used to be a backpacker, but my trips are well-planned now.
Even now when I am on business trips and realise that there is ample time on hand, I go backpacking. For instance, on my business trips to Europe and Australia, I went backpacking to Mont Blanc once and to the Blue Mountains when I was visiting Sydney.”
Before embarking on a journey, Bang does not do much of background research, because then the element of surprise is lost. Each place he visited was unique in its own way in terms of culture, people, food and traditions.Bang plans to travel to the North Pole soon. He will be travelling in a Russian warship for 14 days. Next will be Galapagos near Ecuador in December. In July 2015, he has plans to undertake a cruise from St Petersburg to Volga.
Don’t go with expectations...enjoy each moment as it comes is Bang’s advice to travelers. He is clear that his blog is not for commercial purposes. “If you check the travel sites and magazines, they always write in the third person. They always tend to paint a rosy picture, which is not the case. The various blogs on different destinations are my first impression as a genuine traveller and what I have experienced. The pictures which I have uploaded substantiate my account,” he said.
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